Indie Bride...If you haven't been to this site go there. Now. I know most of you spend time on the kn*t (which is fab - I did, too when I planned my wedding) but if you haven't ventured away then this is a great site to start with. The forums are full of inspirations and the girls have crazy ideas that are sure to surprise your guests!
My favorite thread right now is all about real weddings "hits" and "flops". Love it. I also like the DIY centerpiece thread as well.
Go forth and get creative :)